I have made friends with Toffee. Well sort of. I am still a bit nervous of him, but things seem to be getting a bit easier. Yesterday, He was on the landing so I decided to go upstairs to see what he was doing. After a lot of staring, I decided to take a chance and moved closer. We touched noses and had a quick sniff. He didnt try to eat me or beat me up, so I'm happy. This has happened 3 times since yesterday so things are really looking up in the friendship stakes.